Update on the waterlogged letter

My last post in April was about a waterlogged letter I received from Australia. I’ve since heard from this pen pal, and she told me that another international pal (besides me) also informed her that her letter arrived waterlogged. AND my pen pal says that she herself has received 4 waterlogged letters. It appears that this is happening on the Australia side.  My pen pal mentioned flooding in her area of Australia. I can understand a few raindrops getting on a letter, but the letter I got appeared to have been totally soaked – submerged in water.

Thankfully all my other letters to and from pen pals are coming and going just fine – dry and intact! Perhaps one lesson is to use pens with waterproof ink? In my last post, I explained that the waterlogged letter was un-readable due to the smeared ink. If not for that, I still could have read it even though the paper itself was “wrinkly” from water.

By my mailbox…

We recently had unusual snowy weather in South Carolina and the snow stayed on the ground several days! Typically, when we get a little snow, it melts the next day because it warms up. This time it stayed cold, and I enjoyed seeing snow out my window for a few days in a row. I grew up in Buffalo, NY where we got LOTS of snow, but I’ve lived in SC about 25 years now where our winters are mild. Here is a photo of me by my mailbox.

Memo holder for your desk

My husband does woodworking as a hobby, and I had him make eight “memo holders” to give as gifts. (But I kept two!) While called a “memo holder” you could use one to hold whatever…a photo, outgoing mail, incoming mail, a recipe card, etc. The right back one has a “moat” around it that I thought could be decorative or practical. I put acorns in it, but you could use it on your desk for paper clips. Here you see six of them:

The mail?? The post??

I just realized that November is the 4 year anniversary of when I began this blog. I don’t always blog consistently, but I plan to keep at it! Here is a post (slightly edited) that was originally on the blog in December 2017…

The mail? The post?

I recently told someone that I would send them an item by post. They did not know what this meant! “What is post?” Uh, by mail – the postal service. Then they felt a little dumb. haha.

But really, they should not have felt dumb about it. I tend to use the word post, and I recently realized this is more of a British or European term. Somewhere along the line I picked this up, even though I am American. Perhaps for several reasons: I had a great deal of Canadian influence in my youth. I appreciate certain classic British novels and movies. I’ve long had international pen friends (and international students live with me) that typically write and speak British English.

If you look up the word post in the Merriam-Webster dictionary, there are several definitions, but one is this: “chiefly British, a nation’s organization for handling mail.”

The online free dictionary similarly says for post:

1. Chiefly British
a. a single dispatch or delivery of mail.
b. the mail itself.
c. an established mail system or service.

I sometimes sign my letters “Your friend by post and pen.” You’ll note that this blog is called Postman’s Treasure, rather than Mailman’s Treasure.

However, I am a blend of American and British English when it comes to the post or mail, and may even be inconsistent with my word use. When it comes to my home mail box, I use the word mail. It is the mailbox, not postbox. Do you say that you will “post a letter” or “mail a letter”? Most Americans, in my experience, say mail. I also say mail a letter; somehow post a letter sounds strange to me!

In the U.S.A. we do call it the POST office. It is the USPS: the United States Postal Service. So why is it that we are more likely to use the word mail instead of post…we mail letters, check the mailbox, look for the mailman, and mail packages. Hmmm?

The power of the post in a digital age

A pen pal sent me a newspaper clipping because they know I like cats, but there was also a postal related aspect. A kitty went missing and the owner searched, put notices on the internet, and posted flyers in the community. No success. As a last ditch effort she paid for 500 lost pet postcards to be mailed to homes in the surrounding area. Success! She got 2 phone calls from the same neighborhood. She credits the postcards. People may not see a posted flyer or miss something posted online (not to mention that some folks only use the internet minimally or not at all) but it is hard to ignore a postcard in your mailbox!

I have several blogs, and for one of my other blogs (about Christianity) I decided to start postal mailing a bi-annual newsletter, highlighting content from it. I recently sent the second one, and have had real “success.” My goals are not monetary, but I got some helpful responses: two folks contacted me about leadership opportunities in the church, one person asked me for more copies of the newsletter to hand out to friends at church, and a couple people let me know they were encouraged by articles in the newsletter.

And the point is…In an age of digital technology sometimes going “old school” by using the post can grab attention. There is so much online today that good or important content can get lost in the crowd, never seen or found, so sending information by post can be a help. Of course, paper can get “lost” in a pile of paper clutter too, but in a digital age I think tangible communication can stand out!

The problem with effortless communication

A pen pal in England sent me a print article from a magazine entitled: “The lost art of letter writing. Why handwritten letters are enjoying a renaissance.”  It highlighted how COVID-19 has gotten some people back to sending messages by postal mail, and while digital and postal communication can co-exist, sometimes a letter is better! The article mentions the various tangible and personal aspects of postal letter writing that set it apart.

One point in the article that I’d not considered in such a direct way before was: connecting with people now-a-days is effortless. For example, you just click “like” on someone’s social media post or Instagram photo. And while a “like” can be valid and say “I see you” to someone, it requires very little of the person who clicked like. It is also impersonal, especially if that is the only way you respond to the news or photo that they shared.

The word effortless. Do we really feel cared for when the only way someone communicates with us is effortless? I’ve read articles about how there is a loneliness epidemic (not related to COVID lock downs, but before COVID too) despite all the so-called communication taking place with cell phones and over the internet. Many have likely not thought about why they feel lonely despite communicating so much, and I think it is the lack of effort and lack of a personal touch in relationships.

Someone quoted in the article says that when she moved away she wanted to keep in touch with friends in a more detailed and personal way. She wanted her friends to know how much they meant to her, and taking the time and effort to write postal letters would demonstrate that. Note: the time and effort. Giving someone “the gift” of your time and effort sends “a message” that you matter to them.

Of course, a postal letter is not the only way to be more personal and indicate that you genuinely care about someone. It is possible to make online or digital communication more personal. Instead of just clicking “like” how about…sending a private message, leaving a thoughtful comment, etc. This is at least more personal and takes a little more of your thought and time. Take it a step further and postal mail them a card, or make a phone call, in response to special news that they shared on social media.

There is a saying that “it is the thought that counts” but if your communication methods – of whatever type – require little thought from you and only a brainless click? Well, there is no thought to count!

Mail from several centuries ago…

“Three hundred years ago, before envelopes, passwords and security codes, writers often struggled to keep thoughts, cares and dreams expressed in their letters private.
One popular way was to use a technique called letter locking — intricately folding a flat sheet of paper to become its own envelope. This security strategy presented a challenge when 577 locked letters delivered to The Hague in the Netherlands between 1689 and 1706 were found in a trunk of undelivered mail…”

Mail delivery seems to be getting back to normal…

Greetings! I had 2 posts in January about problems with timely mail and package delivery in the US. My post on Jan. 25th highlighted a NPR report about problems nationally. I meant to share this news from my local area when I saw it in early February:

WYFF 4 Investigates: Viewers voice concern over late mail in Greenville
– Viewers complained about packages sitting for days inside the Greenville USPS distribution center.

From mid autumn through January, I did not find domestic mail delivery times to be universally slow but unpredictable – some mail arriving promptly and quickly, with other items taking a while. We encountered the same with packages as the WYFF report mentions. The tracking showed some packages sitting in a facility somewhere in the US (not just in Greenville) for as long as 1-2 weeks before finally entering the delivery stream. And like someone in the article, we also had a package arrive in Greenville, then leave Greenville for Atlanta, before coming back to Greenville! What in the world? Maybe the Greenville facility was just too full?

Since late January, mail and package delivery seems back to normal. Yeah! Now I need to get some letter writing done!

I mostly ignored the letters in my “to answer” pile in January.  Partly because I just needed a break. I sent or gave out about 130 Christmas cards in December, many of which also contained a brief note or a letter.